False impressions.

First impressions can be extremely harsh. What I wouldnt give to go back in time, change the past, and ultimatly change the way many people percieved me upon their first impression. I met my brothers new girlfriend yesterday and found myself picking her apart finding as many flaws as I possibly could. As I was doing this I cought myself and asked myself why? Why did I feel the need to find fault in her? was it really that I didnt like her? Then I remembered she wasnt the first of his girlfriends that I have done this too. Why? Was I jelous? Of course. I am the only girl in my family so naturaly it is my territory. For her to come in was frustrating. Once I got to know her I learned that she was slightly intimidated by me. When I asked her about it she said that it was because I had an air of arrogence about me and she felt like she was trying to push herself onto me. After hearing this I found that not only will I have to live with my Untrue and wrongly founded first impression of her but also her false Impression of me. Lesson here.... Give one another a chance before making conclusions about them. they may turn out to be people you might end up friends with in the long run.