Life has flown by so quickly I never really thought about what others thought of me as I was growing up. On day I was attending my church service when one of the older members came to me and said how proud they were that I have finally found myself and have begun to define who I am as an adult. Like this would to most people It made me stop and think to my self. I thought what the heck I had no Idea I was lost. Can someone be found if they aren't lost? I never even noticed a change in myself. I asked a few of my close friends if they noticed a change and all of them agreed they haddent noticed. this bugged me for a while until about a month later my co worker was telling me how her children really look up to me. I didnt know what to say. Again I haddent noticed someone watching me and following the things I did. I became concerned and went back to my Church member and asked her what she meant when she said I found myself. She told me it wasnt really a matter of acctually finding myself but growing up and into my faith and confidence. This made me realize that what people notice most is not what you wear or look like but how you speak and act.