Tuesday, September 15, 2009

love and kindness

If you love someone aren't you kind to them? In turn If you are kind to someone you should love them. Many people say keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer. The Bible says love your neighbor as well as your enemies and pray for those who do wrong to you. Kindness is something we all can work on each and everyday, even the most kind people in our world. As humans we are flawed. we speak of love and being kind to one another but many of us are holding a grudge on someone we once loved or barely even knew. I know I'm not perfect and still have some hatred I'm trying to get over. Even though I don't actually hate anyone, having anger in your heart is having hate. If you, like me, are trying to be righteous forgive those who have done wrong to you. I challenge you to call, write, text, or e-mail this person and say " I'm sorry for all the anger and pain between us". you may not feel that you have done anything wrong to have to apologize but I'm sure that's not how the other person sees it. Besides, it takes two to tango. no one can have a fight on their own it takes two sides so whether or not you think you did anything wrong you probably did. All rifts can be smoothed over with a little effort and some communication, so go on tell the person how much they actually mean to you then watch the bridge of friendship mend.


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